I want to tell you a story about a man. While everyone is laughing and drinking, he would just walk, until he reached that exact same spot where he'd sit, with his back to all those people.
And while he did everything to signal to the world that he wanted to be left alone,he hoped that someone passing would understand what he really wanted was the exact opposite. And that this one would sit next to him, and strike up a conversation.
I was that man, and you were that someone.
也许我们每个人都是that man，也都在寻找that someone.